My parents are complete opposites. My Dad is very reserved and soft-spoken. He is a logical and objective thinker who doesn't get overly emotional about, well, anything. Mom is a different story. She is emotional, creative, and intuitive. And she's loud.
My parents are a perfect example of opposites attracting. But I have to ask, just HOW opposite can two people be and still make it work?
I think that differences in demeanor and ways of approaching situations are great, and, I think, important to have in a complementary relationship. But what about spiritual opposites? Or priorities that are at two totally different ends of the spectrum? What about opposite definitions of success and opposite levels of ambition?
I guess I'm still trying to figure this one out. I'll let you know what I come up with.
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Ah, the ever-enduring relationship question. I'm beginning to think that relationships can be, and usually are, as unique as the individuals in them. Yes, there are common habits and traits to relationships, but each always has it's own twist and history.
As for opposite 'categories' (ie: success, ambition, spiritual, physical), it depends on the priority the individuals make these in their relationships. Albeit, I haven't typically seen spiritual or successful opposites.
I would have to say that it's more likely that we're attracted to those who have more in common with us than those who are more opposite. Although, I wonder, for those who "want" the opposite, if they're in-fact wanting to change, to become more 'opposite' than they are. :)
fyi - I found your blog via your Twitter account - long story. :)
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